I believe, for the most part, we all want to be accepted, it is part of human nature; yet one of the toughest things to do as we make forward progress is… letting go of the past issues.
Ever wanted to make a shift? Whether it be losing weight, upgrading your car, your lifestyle, etc only to be criticized by those who claim to be your friends?
Sometimes we want to fit in so badly that we’ll exchange our own ideas and values for those of the group. We don’t want to be booted from the circle.
And when our friends don’t share our hopes, or they don’t want to do or celebrate the things we get excited about, that excitement of unity soon vanish.
There comes a point that we must ask ourselves whether all of our friends are worth belonging to? If someone in our midst not only disagrees with what we want but also comments, nags, or criticizes, —we may have to make a change. How much of YOU are you willing to give up? How much of your dreams and your future are you willing to sacrifice simply because you want to be accepted? Beware of narcissists in your life.
Your life is not about them, it is ALL ABOUT YOU! Your growth, your evolution, your life. Just as much as theirs is about them.
I guarantee as you evolve into your future you WILL move into a new circle of like-minded people. I’ve experienced that myself. It’s okay to move on, it’s okay to grow, it’s okay to BE STRONG, it’s okay to live. Real friends will Love you whether you get healthier, richer or wiser.
Befriend people who share your interests, your needs, your wants. Your instinct to belong will still be there, it will drive you forward, not hold you back.
There is a whole new group of people waiting to celebrate your life at the NEXT LEVEL, dare to rise up!
Daisy Says: Move forward, there is an amazing life waiting for you.
De thank you. You are an angel, where ever you stand Joy lives.
You’re my hero……..<3
“Change is the only constant.” (Heraclitus)
(((((HUGS)))))